Balance my life

17 項準則值得終身學習檢討
    領導自己，自我成長
    Establishing identity 建立身份  (從小慢慢建立，不斷在進行)
    Proving oneself 證明自己
    Decentering from the self and developing greater awareness of other
不本位能體諒他人
    Feeling greater happiness 感謝到無比的快樂  (self esteem)
    When you finally stop reflecting and questioning everything
知有所止  (察言觀色，當能力愈強，就會發現被限制愈多)
    More emphasis on internal process , less on what family and others want
多專注內在，少應付他人
    Continual reflection and learning about the self 不斷自省瞭解自己
    Resolution of conflict to achieve inner peace 尋求內在平靜沒衝突
    Increased self awareness 愈加自知  (自我分析，生理的、心理的)
    Increased sense of purpose 愈有目的感  (知道自己為何如此做)
    The ability to make conscious personal choices 能做與會自己有關的抉擇
    An increased ability for long-team relationship 愈能維繫長期的關係
    A greater sense of realism 愈能務實
    Increased capacity to commit to one’s work 愈能承認自己的本分
    More awareness of one’s impact on others 體認自己對他人的影響
    Coming to terms with the past 面對現實  (不要對過去的事耿耿於懷)
    The ability to learn from experience 由經驗學習的能力  (從經驗中學習)